I am a firm believer that if you tell people about your love
and passion for the sans clothes lifestyle you will be surprised at the
response they give you. I have two situations that have transpired into
something I completely did not expect. One of these situations has now led me
to a position where a good friend of mine is calling me her nude guru.
This amazing woman already knew I was a nudist and not till
recently did I discover that she was considering the lifestyle to tackle body
issues and attempt to break free from her shackles of negative energy she had
taken on over the years. It only came about when I asked her opinion on a
naturist issue. Before long the conversation led to her saying she had been
thinking about giving it a try. So without hesitation I offered my advice and
some tips to help the initial transition from being clothed to unclothed,
offering ideas such as staying nude after the shower for a short wile or as
long as she felt comfortable.
As time has progressed I discovered that she had acted on my
tips and was moving forward at a steady pace. She can now look herself in the
mirror full view in the nude and accept herself as she is and she has no
problems standing in the hallway talking to her housemates while nude. All of
this because we had a discussion about nudism, the ideals of the lifestyle and
the way they can help change a person’s
positive outlook on life. My dear friend
is now quite comfortable with the idea of nudism although it will take some
time for her to take the leap of faith and go to a public beach or resort. She
is yet to transition to spending the day or weekend nude at home however, is
now much more comfortable with nudity in general. As most of us nudies know,
once you feeel the comfort and relaxation of being nude for long periods of
time you don’t want to return to the clothed life.
The second situation stemmed from a conversation with a
supplier rep, who came to visit my workplace. We had spoken before and he is a
great guy to have a good chinwag with. We were talking about Japan and how he
had been a few times and enjoyed the Onsen (Japanese hot springs) so much that
he had to go every time he went to Japan. When I told him stories of how people
asked me if I was terrified about being nude in these places he chimed in and
said he used to live in Europe and nudity was much more accepted over there
amongst peers. He then mentioned off hand that he had lots of nudist buddies
and he visited a nude beach in north Queensland. That’s when I revealed I was a
nudist and the conversation lead to us discovering that we both had some mutual
friends in the nudist community.
As it happens, he has been living a great life as a nudist
and even had the opportunity to introduce some people to it also, tho they
didn’t take it on they still enjoyed the lifestyle and learned how great the
people in this community can be.
If we had never spoken about the onsen, we would never have
known that the other was a nudist. If I didn’t share my passion for nudism I would
never have had the opportunity to help a friend change her life, and if e we
don’t speak to anybody we will never be able to teach others the beauty of this
amazing way of life.
So, to all my fellow nudists and naturists and to all my
followers who may not be nudists please, if the opportunity arises do not be
scared to have a good, frank discussion about nudity and this amazing
lifestyle. Nudists share you passion and
non-nudists show your support. You never know who is in the audience.
